There’s something both flattering and chaotic about being in high demand. The past two weeks, I’m navigating offers from multiple cities (and three continents), trying to fit it all in alongside my personal life. This August alone, I’ve been asked to travel to India, the South of France, Formentera, Morocco and let’s not forget Mexico in September.
All while maintaining my lovely London home, seeing my local regulars, taking care of my 20 years old cat (yes, 20! Top escort and top cat owner go hand in hand), while attempting to keep my houseplants alive and my manicure fresh & neat.
As glamorous as that sounds (and it is, occasionally), here’s the truth: I cannot split myself into five and still offer the quality, attention, and presence my clients deserve.
And here’s where we talk about deposits: No booking is confirmed with me until a deposit is received (your payment reaches my bank account). This is 20% for London bookings, and 50% for FMTY + relevant travel fees.
Until then, my dates remain available to others, and I make no promises. Why? Because while you’re debating between Wednesday and Friday, this hotel and that hotel, someone else is ready to fly me out yesterday.
The reality is, I’ve had multiple gentlemen circling plans for the past week: charming, generous, and well-meaning, I’m sure. But none have secured their spot with a deposit. Instead, my calendar sits in limbo, and I sit here (slightly annoyed), unable to commit to anyone… or anything.
This week, I’m sending out a gentle but firm warning. My patience has worn thinner than the tight Alo outfits you see me wearing at the gym.
Respect my time the way you respect the fantasy of meeting me and please understand: this isn’t about being transactional, it’s about being professional.
A deposit isn’t just a number, it’s a gesture. A symbol of mutual intent. It says: “I value your time, your planning, your life outside of me.”
So to those circling the calendar without commitment: I love the enthusiasm, but I love boundaries more.
I’m attaching a photo that captures exactly how I feel: elegantly, unapologetically, standing my ground.
With love,
Caroline