Etiquette

Before We Meet

Please read my site for all details on rates, services, and boundaries. My fees are thoughtfully set and not open to negotiation for new clients.

When you first reach out via email:

1. Kindly include a brief introduction with your name and how you found me — it’s always lovely to have a sense of who is reaching out.

2. Please be clear about your preferred date, time, and location.

3. The sooner you plan, the better, as I am rarely able to accommodate last-minute bookings.

4. To reserve our time together, a deposit is required: 20% for engagements in London, and 50% plus travel arrangements for destinations beyond.

Our booking will be confirmed once the deposit has been received

I accept deposits via discreet business bank transfer, PayPal, or Bitcoin. I also appreciate the preference of those who wish to leave no digital trace and, with this in mind, I am equally delighted to accept gift cards from Selfridges.

https://www.giftvouchers.co.uk/voucher/selfridges

For a Seamless Beginning

Please settle the remaining fee at the start of our meeting via UK business bank transfer, PayPal, or in cash. Kindly note that I am unable to accept international transfers on the day of our meeting. If you do not hold a UK bank account, payment will need to be made either in cash or via PayPal, as both clear immediately.

If Plans Must Change

In the event that you need to cancel, please note that your deposit is non-refundable. However, if you cancel at least 24 hours before our scheduled date, I’m happy to apply your deposit towards a future booking made within the next three months. Beyond that time frame, the deposit becomes fully non-refundable.

Of course, I’m only human, and on the extremely rare occasion that I need to cancel, you may either reschedule or receive a full refund of your deposit.